They say girls Marry there Father - Is this guy the splitting image of my dad, and am I in danger?

Sweetie, you need to ditch this guy and fast. No one deserves to be treated the way you are, especially when you aren't even in a relationship with this guy. You need to think about the fact that he is treating you like this when you're just friends so just imagine how much worse it could turn if you ever got into a relationship with him. Abusive relationships are very hard for people to get out of, please do the right thing for your self.