I absolutely feel hate for my bf?

This man does not understand that all I need is quality time. He works 2 jobs, he makes times for his friends and to watch the fights on t.v at a friends house. (we do not live together) Go to bbq's, baptismals ect.. but what about ME? he goes to work form 6a.m-3p.m .. gets home around 4.. sleep eats.. wakes up to go to the gym around what 8p.m spends 2 hours there.. goes home to eat (if he is cooking he cannot talk to me on the phone and cook) by the time he showers and gets ready to sleep its almost midnight... I call him and he is grumpy cause how tired of a day he had. WTF! He makes me so irate! We went to the movies to see fast five, and he was looking through the camera I had with me.. and he was acting seriously insecure. As if I am cheating on him or seeing someone else on the sneak. I HATE HIM I HATE HIM I HATE HIM!!!! I tell him that, and he does not care. I would have to leave this area, to stop talking to him.. and stop getting back with him! I am really just venting..