Love, its complicated, and i need advice?

It took me well over a year to get over a man I deeply loved that I was with for four years AND had a kid with....Keep in mind its going to take SOME time and your going to look back at thi when your older and laugh, it may not feel like that right now but trust me... Why do you think other guys hate women so much? They've gone throught exactly what you are going through. Dont worry things will get better. The more you push away, the more you'll want to talk. Just go with the flow. Dont let her use you though; girls will always come back for the amusement BUT thats it. Get through your head that she doesnt love you and there is someone else out there that will love you more and not play mind games and TRULY love you. Dont get stuck on this girl....she's playing the game.